This seems to baffle, confuse and even worry some people, and I guess I get it. But I am not a sad cliche that just sits around waiting for my man to come back and save me. I have a life and, although it can be lonely some times, there are so many benefits to living by yourself. The age of me living by myself will come to an end in less than a year, and I guess it's this that has made me realise how valuable the last two years of me, myself and I has been.